being a player collector it seems like there are 2 schools of thought
1 people know you and what/who you collect and want that card to end up with the collector and will be fair or take a loss even just that it ends up in a collection where they think it belongs
2 People know you collect so and so or whatever and they will try and rake you over the coals like Sportcardheaven on ComC does if he finds out you want/need/collect something
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