My disappearing act comes to an end

chadsexington

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Hi guys,

I've been absent here for the better part of the last month so I wanted to come by and say hello again. On March 11th, my wife went in for her 36 week ultrasound, and was told at that point she was 2 cm dilated and could be candidate for early delivery :whatthehell:

She started panicking a bit (she still had a week and a half of work left because our original due date was April 4th) but you know me...I was pretty chill and assuming they were feeding her BS lines so I told her to calm down and finished securing shelves to walls and things to appease her :laugh:

Then on Thursday morning (March 13th) she wakes me up at 5 AM and says she's in labor :duh:

13 hours later, I was a dad for the first time, but the last few weeks have been a bit crazy. I'll spare the gory details, but my wife ended up in the operating room after the birth, and her hemoglobin levels hit rock bottom to the point where she couldn't even lift our child for the first 48 hours, and I needed to be home to look after them both for a few weeks.

She still isn't 100% but getting stronger each day. You can see the color returning to her face and such. Her mom is here from Australia visiting for the next couple weeks, so I think that's lifted her spirits a bit too :)

But in the meantime, I'd like to introduce you all to my daughter and firstborn. Charlotte Delys Paligaru was born on March 13th at 6:41 PM at a healthy 8 lbs 8 oz.

Here she is forcibly wearing one of the gifts she was brought from Australia :laugh:

Charlotte5.jpg


No special significance to her first name outside of the fact that I've always really liked the name. Her middle name is Laura's mother and grandmother's name. Since we're both only children, we thought this was a nice way for her family name to live on somehow.

Oddly enough, we've got reason to believe now that the dating ultrasound was wrong, and Charlotte came a week LATE as opposed to 3 weeks early. There have been a few medical telltale signs to suggest this, and Laura's family doc (and both her parents who are doctors too) seem to think this was also the case.

Anyhoo...now you know what I've been up to!
 
Congratulations to you Matt, and your wife. Your daughter is beautiful. My daughter turns 6 in a couple of months and those years have flown by. Take lots of pictures as they change so fast, and enjoy every single minute.

Being a dad is the best thing in the world.
 
Congratulations - what a beautiful daughter! My wife (Laura) and I have a daughter, Charlotte, as well (who is turning 3 in June). Excellent name choice! Sleep when you can and enjoy every moment as it goes by quickly!
 
Congratulations there sir. Being a DAD is a special thing. Glad to hear the family is doing well. Here's a hint to survive the next couple weeks esp. losing sleep at night--any nap you can take...enjoy.
 
Matt - congrats on the new addition! I think your idea of preserving your wifes name is awesome.

When my daughter was born we chose her name (Evelyn Deborah Grace) to cover both of our grandmothers names and our mothers names... If we have another girl, there aren't any names left her!

Congrats on the new addition, and take good care!

Cory
 
as you'll soon find out, having a daughter is the best.
mine is 2 and a half and there is nothing like sitting on the couch cuddling with your little girl and watching some t.v.
we have another one on the way that we don't know what it is, wife thinks its a boy.

nothing like have a "daddy's little girl"
 
as you'll soon find out, having a daughter is the best.
mine is 2 and a half and there is nothing like sitting on the couch cuddling with your little girl and watching some t.v.
we have another one on the way that we don't know what it is, wife thinks its a boy.

nothing like have a "daddy's little girl"

Yeah, I can't wait for the day that dad takes her ice skating for the first time, or sits and cuddles on the couch with a bucket of popcorn watching a Disney movie and such.

For now, she's not my biggest fan though...maybe because I'm not the food source ;)

Dad is experiencing a lot of unnecessary firsts. I'm the first parent she's pooped, peed AND thrown up on. I guess that has to count for something. Also, I guess better the bodily function stuff happen to the unsuspecting dad than poor mom.
 

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