Thanks guys, well it looks like I shouldnt have posted my question on the beckett boards, its hard for little kids to hold a professional conversation on the boards.
Thanks for agreeing with me, some are trying to make me look like a crook, like I was trying to sneak one over on the guy. But it all boils down to the fact that he bid, he was not forced to bid, if he had any questions or doubts he could have contacted me before bidding. So he bids, gets the card and somehow its "damaged", but oddly enough the "damage" is exactly the same as shown in my original scan given before the card was shipped. As dherm said, I think he realized he overpaid and now is trying to back out the hard way, I just hate how people on those boards cannot understand that, I was not trying to trick anyone, the scan was there, if I was trying to trick people I wouldnt have posted a scan, or I would have photoshopped out the stress marks!
We'll see what happens, im sure Paypal will rule in his favor but what happens then? My account cant be closed since im arguing the claim right? Ive never had this happen, I emailed the buyer, hopefully we can mutually work something out.