I've had the pleasure of purchasing from Wayne whenever I've visited family in Barrie. I'm a sports writer (like he used to be), and it was that common thread that sparked a conversation or two during my time in his shop. Each time I have visited, I have bought at least one box from him even though that wasn't the purpose of my visit. And I always left feeling good about the experience.
That's why I got into this hobby in the first place. Because guys like Wayne make it a lot more fun. Sharing stories of monster pulls, hobby trends, what's hot and what isn't ... sure, for some people, it will always be about the money. But not with Wayne, and I'm sure it's the same for a lot of B&M shops that don't just offer product, but stories, guidance and insight.
Some people associate B&Ms with greed and chicanery. And it's true that some engage in both to the extent that it spoils the hobby. But if you owned a B&M right now and you found out that UD was on the verge of making significant changes that could cause major consternation among your purchasing base, wouldn't you be frustrated, too? Especially when collectors are suggesting that you actually stand to *benefit* from this, and then proceed to denigrate you for it?
Maybe you don't agree, and that's fine. The truth is, we don't know at all what's going to happen once this all takes effect. But I'm giving the B&Ms I frequent the benefit of the doubt, because they're the ones who keep me interested in this hobby, beyond the cards themselves. Not Beckett, or eBay, or video box breaks. It's the chance to talk about the hobby with guys like Wayne that make it less insular and more intimate. And I want he and the rest of the hard-working B&Ms to stick around for a long time.
Criticize the bad B&Ms all you want, but don't group them all together. It's short-sighted, ignorant and just plain unfair.